Lubricants

Three families, three uses

Water-based lubricant is compatible with absolutely everything—condoms, silicone, latex—washes off with plain water, and doesn’t stain. Its only drawback: it dries out, but can be reactivated with a drop of water. Silicone lubricant lasts much longer and is bathwater-resistant, but it irreversibly damages silicone toys. Hybrid lubricants strike a balance: the staying power of silicone and the comfort of water-based lubricants.

What Not to Mix

Never use oil, petroleum jelly, or any greasy cream with a condom: fatty substances weaken latex within minutes and render it ineffective. This is the most important rule in this category. For the same reason, massage oil is not an intimate lubricant, even if the texture is similar.

Effects, scents, and quantity

Warming, cooling, or scented versions add a sensation, not performance; they contain more additives, which should be avoided if your skin is sensitive. A simple, unscented formula remains the most comfortable option for everyday use. As for quantity, always start with less than you think you’ll need: a few drops, then add more as needed. And apply a little to yourself, not just to the object.