Massage oils

Oil or Candle

Oil warms up in your hands and takes a while to work into the skin: this is the classic, easiest choice. A massage candle melts at a low temperature and is poured warm directly onto the skin—the effect is spectacular, as long as you test the temperature on yourself before pouring it onto someone else. 3-in-1 formulas are designed for massage, bath, and moisturizing; they’re convenient for travel and slightly less slippery than a dedicated massage oil.

The rule that keeps you safe

Massage oil is not an intimate lubricant, and most importantly: oils break down latex. If a condom is involved, keep the oil at a distance, or switch to a water-based lubricant. This is the only real pitfall in this category, and it’s worth keeping in mind.

Comfort and Sheets

Warm the bottle for a few minutes in a bowl of hot water rather than in the microwave. Place a towel under the person receiving the massage to avoid any regrets: most of these oils stain, especially the colored or glittery versions. Edible and scented formulas are intended for external use only; if you have sensitive skin, opt for a simple, unscented vegetable oil.